{"id":1535,"date":"2025-10-28T15:00:36","date_gmt":"2025-10-28T15:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.flytographer.com\/blog\/three-weeks-alone-in-europe\/"},"modified":"2025-10-28T15:00:36","modified_gmt":"2025-10-28T15:00:36","slug":"three-weeks-alone-in-europe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/blog\/three-weeks-alone-in-europe\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Weeks Alone in Europe: What I Learned After Launching My Youngest Son to College"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"et-boc\" class=\"et-boc\">\n<div class=\"et-l et-l--post\">\n<div class=\"et_builder_inner_content et_pb_gutters3\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_section et_pb_section_0 et_section_regular\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_0\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_0  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><strong>About the author:<\/strong> As the Founder and CEO of Flytographer, Nicole shares her story of building the company as well as her passion of capturing memories while travelling. Listen to her podcast, <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/podcast\">Captured Together<\/a>, where she invites our community of local photographers to share their best insider city tips and stories from around the world.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_0 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_1  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h3>What\u2019s Next After an Empty Nest?<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The house was too quiet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After dropping my youngest son, Jack, at university this fall, and with my older son, Harrison, already back at his own campus I walked into a home that had been full of motion for more than twenty years.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And suddenly, it was silent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019d been planning this moment for months. Not the silence, but what would come after it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For two decades, I\u2019d been \u201cMom\u201d first, and somewhere along the way, I\u2019d also become CEO, building Flytographer for the past twelve years. I realized I had never really stopped to catch my breath.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So I made myself a promise: the moment Jack was successfully launched, I was taking three weeks off to travel through Europe. Alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It felt both indulgent and deeply necessary, part celebration, part reset, and part curiosity about who I am in this new chapter. I\u2019ll admit, there was a moment of hesitation. Did I deserve this? Was it justified? Could I really just go? But once I gave myself permission, it felt absolutely right.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_1\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_1  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_1 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_2  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Lake Garda: Permission to Pause<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I started in Northern Italy at a spa hotel overlooking <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/destinations\/lake-garda\/\">Lake Garda<\/a>. For the first few days, my only goal was to do nothing. I read, moved between hot and cold pools, and stayed offline as much as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_2\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_2  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_3  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_0\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_7724.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100164\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_4  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_3\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_5  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_3  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One afternoon, I tried my first Aufguss, a guided sauna \ud83e\uddd6\u200d\u2640\ufe0fritual where a sauna master uses music, aromatherapy, and swirling towels to move the heat through the room. What I didn\u2019t realize beforehand was that it was clothing optional, and most of the Europeans around me took that quite literally. Meanwhile, I sat tightly wrapped in my towel like the modest North American I am.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By the fifth day, I finally worked up the courage to join in as the locals do\u2026 setting the towel aside and simply being part of the moment. It sounds small, but it felt deeply freeing. After years of being \u201cMom\u201d and \u201cCEO,\u201d always protected and prepared, this was the first time I\u2019d allowed myself to just be unguarded, present, and comfortable in my own skin. It felt like shedding a layer I didn\u2019t realize I\u2019d been carrying.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_4\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_6  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_7  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_1\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_7973.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100165\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_8  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_5\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_9  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_4  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My best friend, Erika, \ud83d\udc6f joined me on the second night. Those days at Lake Garda were all about doing things that made me feel my best\u2026 hot and cold pools, sauna, gym, sleep, reading, staying offline. And yes, eating what I absolutely loved. I discovered the best spaghetti \ud83c\udf5d Pomodoro of my life and promptly decided to <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">order it every single night for five days straight<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>.<\/em> \ud83d\ude05 Like all good best friends, Erika didn\u2019t judge me for a second she just laughed and joined me at the table. There were no rules, and that felt liberating, too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those slow days completely reset my nervous system. Starting my trip with stillness turned out to be the best decision I could\u2019ve made.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_6\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_10  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_11  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_2\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0049.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100155\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_3\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_7690.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100199\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_12  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_7\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_13  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_2 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_5  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Venice: Friendship, Connection, and a Little Magic<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From Lake Garda, Erika and I took the train to <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/destinations\/venice\/\">Venice<\/a> for a quick 24-hour stop \u2014 her first time there. I\u2019d been before, but seeing it through her eyes felt like a brand-new experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That evening, we had dinner with <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/vacation-photographers\/your-vacation-photographer-in-rome-meet-roberta\/\">Roberta<\/a>, one of our Flytographer photographers from Rome, and <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/vacation-photographers\/your-vacation-photographer-in-venice-meet-marta\/\">Marta<\/a>, who lives in Venice. Both have been part of Flytographer since the early days, and I\u2019ve known them for more than a decade. It also happened to be all of our birthdays *Libras united* \u264e\ufe0f so it felt like the universe had aligned for one perfect night.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marta\u2019s daughter, Nina, joined us too. I\u2019ve known her since she was five, and she\u2019s now thirteen. Over dinner, surrounded by these incredible women, I was reminded how deeply Flytographer has woven connections across the world, friendships that started with photos and have become something much more.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_8\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_14  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_15  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_4\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/c08a81f0-d0d7-45a0-800b-bc54148e4857.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100151\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_16  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_9\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_17  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_6  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next morning, we took a private water taxi to the airport, it pulled right up to our hotel on the canal. Gliding through the quiet morning waterways, bags at our feet, felt like a scene from a movie. It was pure joy \ud83e\udd29 a perfect little pocket of magic before the next stop on the journey.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_10\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_18  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_19  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_5\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0017.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100153\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_20  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_11\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_21  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_7  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Copenhagen: Connection and the Art of Doing Nothing Together<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From there, I flew to <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/destinations\/copenhagen\/\">Copenhagen<\/a> to stay with Erika, who has lived there for 18 years. Most people don\u2019t know this, but Erika inspired the <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/blog\/idea-to-global-startup-origin-story\/\">idea for Flytographer<\/a>. Back in 2011, we met up for a weekend in Paris, and that\u2019s when the spark was born.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This trip was the first time in ages we could spend real, unhurried time together without obligations in the way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I celebrated my 53rd birthday there, and Erika took me to her favourite spa for the day, just north of Copenhagen. They have a private pier where you can swim in the ocean so on the morning of my birthday, I plunged into the icy water \u2014 the shock was instant: gasping, exhilarating, completely alive.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_12\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_22  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_23  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_6\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0011.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100152\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_7\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_0040.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100154\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_24  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_13\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_25  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_8  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There was something grounding about slipping into her daily life, grocery runs, cat cuddles, ordinary routines. After years of racing between work and parenting, those small moments felt like luxury.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We wandered through Nyhavn, the colourful waterfront that looks like it belongs on a postcard, and spent an afternoon at a cozy caf\u00e9 featured in Season 2 of The Bear. (The pastries lived up to the hype.)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_14\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_26  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_27  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_8\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8195.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100167\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_9\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8054.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100166\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_28  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_15\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_29  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_9  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But what I\u2019ll remember most from Copenhagen wasn\u2019t any one thing we did,&nbsp; it was the <em>\u201c<\/em><\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">art of doing nothing<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>\u201d<\/em> together. Just two best friends with no agenda, no deadlines, no kids to check on, no phones buzzing. We lingered over coffee, wandered aimlessly, talked for hours, and laughed about everything and nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_16\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_30  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_31  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_10\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8209.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100200\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_32  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_17\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_33  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_10  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As women, we lose that kind of time as life fills up, with careers, kids, and endless responsibilities. Everything becomes scheduled and efficient, even our friendships. But one of the unexpected gifts of this empty-nest chapter is the chance to reclaim it. To create space again for the kind of friendship time that\u2019s unscripted, unhurried, and wonderfully unproductive. I\u2019d forgotten how good that feels \u2013 and how important it is.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_with_border et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_3 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_11  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Paris: Creativity and Curiosity<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Next came <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/destinations\/paris\/\">Paris<\/a>, and a completely different energy. I met up with girlfriends who were also newly minted empty nesters, plus a few longtime Flytographer photographers. We wandered without plans and spent an afternoon exploring flea markets and caf\u00e9s I\u2019d never had time for before. We swapped stories over Jazz Palomas at our hotel bar and giggled like teenagers.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_18\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_34  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_35  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_11\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8311.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100168\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_36  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_19\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_37  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_12  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of my favourite moments was recording an episode of my new podcast, <a href=\"http:\/\/flytographer.com\/podcast\">Captured Together<\/a>, in my friend <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/vacation-photographers\/your-vacation-photographer-in-paris-meet-krystal\/\">Krystal\u2019s<\/a> apartment in Montmartre, overlooking the Eiffel Tower. Her husband <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/vacation-photographers\/your-vacation-photographer-in-paris-meet-giuseppe\/\">Giuseppe<\/a> (also a Flytographer!) and sweet pup \ud83d\udc36 Coco popped by to welcome me.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_20\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_38  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_39  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_12\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8369.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100169\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_40  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_21\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_41  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_13  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We talked about creativity, reinvention, and how our work has evolved through different seasons of life. And she took me for dinner at her favorite neighborhood restaurant in Montemartre, it was absolutely delicious.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_22\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_42  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_43  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_13\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1f247f89-95a7-4d19-888c-d51fc2f1a354.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100150\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_44  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_23\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_45  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_14  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Paris reminded me that play and curiosity are fuel, and that inspiration often finds you when you\u2019re not looking for it.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_4 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_15  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Edinburgh: Solitude and Magic<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the final leg, I flew to <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/destinations\/edinburgh\/\">Edinburgh<\/a>, a city I\u2019d always wanted to visit. I arrived alone and immediately fell in love. The castle glowed above the city at night, and the cobblestone streets felt like something out of a storybook.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_24\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_46  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_47  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_14\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8440.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100171\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_48  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_25\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_49  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_16  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I met one of our Flytographer photographers, <a href=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/vacation-photographers\/your-vacation-photographer-in-edinburgh-meet-kim\/\">Kim<\/a>, in person for the first time after eleven years of working together. Sitting across from her at a coffee shop, sharing homemade Tiffin she\u2019d made for me, I was reminded why I built Flytographer in the first place: connection. Our photographers aren\u2019t just part of a network,&nbsp; they\u2019re the heart of what we do.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_26\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_50  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_51  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_15\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1CBA8CF7-B50D-45F0-BA81-B10FE2C9A34F.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100149\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_52  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_27\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_53  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_17  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I also joined a hilarious walking tour led by a local comedian \u2013 part history lesson, part stand-up show. And complete with his dog trotting along beside us. It was such a fun, lighthearted way to see the city and meet people as a solo traveller.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_28\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_54  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_55  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_16\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8435-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100196\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_56  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_29\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_57  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_18  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those two days on my own were pure magic \u2014 peaceful, energizing, and full of awe.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_30\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_58  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_5 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_19  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Travelling Solo: A Few Things I Learned<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This was my first time travelling solo for three full weeks, and while I wasn\u2019t nervous, I did learn a few things along the way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pack light. Seriously.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I brought one carry-on bag for the entire trip, which had to cover everything from swimsuits and spa sandals in Lake Garda to raincoats and sweaters in Edinburgh. It turned out to be one of the best decisions I made. Packing light meant I could easily hop on and off trains and breeze through airports without stress. Outfit repeating in different cities made it simple and stress-free and no one cares what you\u2019re wearing as much as you think they do. Fewer choices, less weight, more freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t need to fill every day.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some of my favorite memories came from unplanned hours lingering in caf\u00e9s, reading by the lake, wandering aimlessly through Paris, or getting lost down side streets in Copenhagen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leave space for serendipity.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I knew I wanted to start in Italy, but I didn\u2019t plan much beyond that until about a month before I left. And I\u2019m so glad I didn\u2019t. The trip unfolded better than I could\u2019ve imagined, from discovering Lake Garda to realizing that a few of my fellow empty-nest mom friends would be in Europe at the same time. You never know what (or who) will fall into place when you leave room for the unexpected.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay open to connection.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From Flytographer photographers I\u2019d worked with for years to locals I met in passing, every conversation reminded me how kind and interesting people are everywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Travelling solo gave me space to listen to my thoughts, my instincts, and my energy. And I realized: independence isn\u2019t lonely. It\u2019s expansive.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_31\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_59  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_60  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_17\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8185.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100197\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_61  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_32\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_62  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_6 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_20  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Coming Home<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I landed back in Canada just in time for Thanksgiving weekend. \ud83c\udf41 Both my sons came home, my parents joined us, and as I looked around the table, I felt deeply grateful, grounded in where I\u2019ve been and clear on what\u2019s ahead.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This trip wasn\u2019t about escape. It was about intention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For the first time in two decades, I gave myself permission to pause, to get still, to go offline, to listen. I wanted to celebrate a milestone and invest in myself again: my joy, my energy, my curiosity.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_text -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_33\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_63  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_2 et_pb_column_64  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_image et_pb_image_18\">\n<span class=\"et_pb_image_wrap \"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/flyphotoprod.wpenginepowered.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_8726.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"\" height=\"auto\" width=\"auto\" class=\"wp-image-100198\"><\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_1_4 et_pb_column_65  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child et_pb_column_empty\">\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_column -->\n<\/div>\n<p> <!-- .et_pb_row --><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_row et_pb_row_34\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_column et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column_66  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode_passthrough et-last-child\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_divider et_pb_divider_7 et_pb_divider_position_ et_pb_space\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_divider_internal\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_21  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h2><b>Three Things I\u2019ll Carry Forward<\/b><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Celebrate milestones intentionally and make up your own rules.&nbsp; \ud83c\udf89&nbsp;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Big life transitions deserve to be marked. 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That\u2019s where clarity, energy, and inspiration start to rebuild.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> Reconnect with people and places that fill you up. \ud83e\udd70<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That week in Copenhagen with my best friend reminded me of <\/span><em><strong>the art of doing nothing together <\/strong><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014 something we lose in our busy, scheduled lives. Just hanging out, laughing, wandering, no agenda. And beyond that, exploring new places from Paris to Edinburgh reminded me how travel reawakens curiosity and creativity. 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